Just one more teeny weeny thing to do before the Bar/Bat Mitzvah or the Wedding:

Organize a Group Quilt

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Whether you're planning a quilt as a  keepsake for a bar mitzvah, or as a huppa for a wedding,   you may want to ask friends and family members to contribute. You then assemble their work  into a quilt. There are several ways to go about this.

Option 1: COLLECT BLOCKS IN ADVANCE

One option for a group quilt project is to give or send out pieces of fabric well in advance of the event, for friends and family members to sign and/or decorate. This kind of project requires considerable planning and lead time. Not to mention nudging and the kvetching, which, in Yiddish syntax,  must always precede kvelling.
    You will need to have some kind of quilt design in mind. The most obvious choice---sending everyone some kind of square or rectangular, which you will then piece into a quilt---is not  the best choice. Because if you are counting on contructing your quilt from 42 of those blocks, set in seven rows of six,  made by 42 contributors,  you must  think about what you'll do if three of the planned contributors don't come through. At the last minute. After she promised repeatedly that she would .

Sending people shapes that you will later APPLIQUE onto the quilt is a more forgiving plan. (Shapes can be hexagons, like one quilt that's in the Gallery page; or the shapes can represent something,  like leaves, which you can sew onto a tree background; or   hot air balloons, which can go onto a  sky---butterflies on flowers,  fish on bicycles, use your imagination!)  That way, you can construct and finish the rest of the quilt, and attach the appliques as they come in. And it won't be a disaster if some contributions don't show up, or they show up a year after the event.
  
 If you're going to do it through the mail,  it is vital to create a procrastination-proof  kit to send all the participants.  At the minimum, the kit should include:

  • A letter with clear directions and a DEADLINE IN REALLY BIG BOLD LETTERS. FOLLOWED BY LOTS OF EXCLAMATION POINTS !!!!!!!!   Ideally, the deadline should be close to their   receipt of your package (so they don't hide it under a pile of papers)---like maybe two weeks---and  a month to six months  in advance of the quilt presentation, depending on how fast you sew.   There are going to be laggards no matter what, so expect to be on the phone  and or email, reminding people  one week before they're due, and I am sorry to say, long after they're due.  Many people are art-phobic. Explain to them that it's okay if they just sign the block and send it  right back---they don't have to be  Marc Chagall.   My kits always contain:
     
  • Fabric cut to the proper shape and size and ironed onto freezer paper 
     
  • A permanent ink pen,
     
  • A return envelope, addressed to you, with proper postage.
     

Details and Procedure:
   Buy enough yards of a good-quality, 100% cotton, plain, light-colored fabric for every participant to have a piece. 
  And while you're at the quilt store,  buy a roll of Reynolds freezer paper (if not, try the supermarket).  You will use this to back the fabric you're sending out.
  At home, launder and iron fabric. Then, cut it into pieces of the desired shape and size.     
   Iron the fabric pieces to a slightly bigger piece of freezer paper, with the waxed side against the back of the fabric.  The freezer paper makes the fabric much easier to draw on.. Tell people that if the fabric comes loose from the freezer paper, they should  re-iron it down.  Be sure to emphasize to them that they need to sign the FABRIC side, not the paper side!! You might want to draw an x through the paper side, just to make sure. You'd be surprised how many people can't tell the difference between fabric and paper.
   If the shape you are sending will have a seam allowance, use a  light pencil or wash-out pen (from the fabric store)  to  mark scant 1/4" seam allowance lines around all the edges of the fabric piece.   Non-quilters have a hard time comprehending that their decoration or signature must stay inside the seam allowance. Make it stunningly obvious.
   Enclose a fine point permanent pen. Some are quite expensive. Others leak and spread ink all over the fabric, so you have to test first. Thick tipped laundry pens look really bad.  My current favorite for signature quilts are Sharpie (r) Ultra Fine Point permanent black pens, sold by the dozen at reasonable prices.   Or you can send out fancier, and more expensive fine-point fabric pens. Tell the recipients that, at a minimum, they should just sign the block with the given pen. But it will be a lot more exciting (and dangerous) if you give them the option to use their own supplies and talent to embellish the block.   Just make it clear that their decoration should be washable (unless you are certain this quilt will never be washed). Spell it out as clearly as possible. If, like me,  you loathe puff paints, then write "NO PUFF PAINTS PLEASE!" But write it bigger, with more exclamation points. It may not work.
 

 Option 2: Gather Signatures at the Event 

   There are a lot of Judaic quilters out there doing this, ESPECIALLY for bar and bat mitzvahs. Read more about this on my Bar/Bat Mitzvah page of this website; and at my www.partyquilt.com website.   A quilt that people sign at the party has a lot of advantages, the primary one being that not nearly as much lead time is required as for Option 1. 
   
 

     
 
 
 

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